Dear Christina If you didn’t do stuff to make other people feel bad you wouldn’t feel bad. Everything we think we are doing to other people out of anger and fear, is really just using someone else in your mind to treat badly because you feel so badly yourself. The problem with that practice is that we always stay in fear and anger and always notice it in everyone else. The term is projection. It’s bigger than just a simple diagnosis of a condition. It’s way more than a simple condition as it is a part of our consciousness that is always and literally in our face.